Wednesday

The importance of reading books

My daughter, who is 7 years old now, only started to learn phonics and reading when she was 3 years 8 months old. Before that, I was too busy to teach her to read.

She learned phonics for about 11 months, after that, she was still not able to read fluently. Then she read the Peter and Jane series books 8a, 9a, 10a, 11a, 12a and 12b over the next few months. By the time she finished book 12b, she was reading very fluently.

Just before her 5th birthday, she started to read Charlotte's Web by E.B. White.
Charlotte's Web was my English literature textbook when I was in Sec 1 in Raffles Girls' Secondary School. I was amazed that my girl could read Charlotte's Web at 5 years old. There were some difficult words that she did not know, but she could read most of the words without any help.

Charlotte's Web is a masterpiece, widely regarded as the best book written for children. It is also the all time best selling children's book (before Harry Potter). The book teaches the importance of friendship, and about life and death. My favourite quote from the book :

"'Why did you do all this for me?" he asked. "I don't deserve it. I've never done anything for you.' 'You have been my friend,' replied Charlotte. 'That in itself is a tremendous thing.'"

The following are some of the wonderful children's classics that she has read. All the books are original and unabridged, except for Gulliver.

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
Roald Dahl (Author)
My girl found this book very funny, she was giggling very often as she read the book. She learned about the consequences of bad behaviour, and the importance of good behaviour. I like the part of the book that describes poverty and hunger. Charlie's family is so poor that they can only afford to eat cabbage soup every day. Most children in Singapore never experience hunger, and I think they should read books like this so that they know how lucky they are.


Wonderful Wizard of Oz
L. Frank Baum (Author)
W.W. Denslow (Illustrator)
My girl was captivated by the exciting adventures in the book. She read the entire book silently on her own. I bought her the original version of the book, with wonderful illustrations by W.W. Denslow. The book teaches the importance of friendship, as Dorothy, the Tin Woodman, Scarecrow and the Cowardly Lion helped each other through dangers and hardships. It is also wildly imaginative, filled with interesting and fascinating characters.

The Little House on the Prairie
Laura Ingalls Wilder (Author)
Garth Williams (Illustrator)
The book was about a 5 year old girl Laura, who traveled with her family and settled on the prairie, about 130 years ago. At first I was not sure whether my girl will like the book, since some of the chapters are not easy to read. For example, one chapter describes in detail how the father built the little log house, entirely by hand. Another chapter describes how the entire family were infected by malaria and almost died. But my girl identified herself with Laura, who was the same age as her. She was also attracted to the lovely illustrations by Garth Williams. She told me that she liked the book very much. The book teaches about how to survive in the wilderness, how to endure hardships, and about a family sticking together.


The Adventures of Pinocchio
Carlo Collodi (Author)
Roberto Innocenti (Illustrator)
I first saw this book in the library. I was so impressed by the magnificent illustrations, that I immediately ordered a copy from www.amazon.com. This edition features a translation of the full, unabridged text. The original Pinocchio is very different from Disney's version. The story is very dark, and some of the events are frightening for young children. My girl, who just turned 6 years old when she read this book, is matured enough, and she enjoyed reading the book very much. She learned about the terrible consequences of bad behaviour, and more importantly, that a good child should love and take care of his/her parents when they are old and sick, like what Pinocchio finally learned to do at the end of the book. As a parent, I learned that when a child would not change his bad behaviour no matter how hard we tried, then the best way for him to learn is to let him suffer the consequences.




The Trumpet of the Swan
E. B. White (Author)
Fred Marcellino (Illustrator)
This is another masterpiece written by E.B. White, author of Charlotte's Web. I think that every parent and child should read this book. The story is about a trumpeter swan, Louis. He does not have a voice. Louis learned to read and write with the help of a boy, and also learned to play beautiful music with a trumpet stolen by his father. He worked very hard to repay his father's debt, and in the end, he saved up enough money for his father to pay back the trumpet. His wonderful music also helped him to win the love of beautiful swan.
My girl likes this book better than Charlotte's Web. It is deeply moving, and at the same time very funny. She learned that children should work very hard for a better future, and to repay their parents' kindness.



Alice's Adventures in Wonderland
Lewis Carroll (Author)
Helen Oxenbury (Illustrator)
The original books are difficult for a 6 year old child to understand. So I found this edition, with the unabridged text, and very lovely illustrations to help my girl understand better. Though the original text is difficult to read, she happily read every page. Each page is filled with absurd encounters and funny characters, this book can truly fire a child's imagination.


The Happy Prince
The Selfish Giant
Oscar Wilde (Author)
I have always loved the story of The Happy Prince. But I only read the abridged version when I was a child. I bought the original text written by Oscar Wilde for my girl. I found myself reading the short story over and over again, and each time I was deeply moved. Oscar Wilde's writing is incredibly beautiful, and easy for a child to understand. The story teaches my girl about compassion for the poor, self sacrifice, and friendship. Every child should read the original version of this book.
Every child should also read The Selfish Giant, also written by Oscar Wilde. The story teaches the important value of generosity and sharing.


The Boxcar Children
Gertrude Chandler Warner (Author)
When I first borrowed this book from the library, my girl finished reading within a couple of hours. The next day, she read the book from the beginning again.
The story is about 4 sibling who have recently lost their parents and on the run from their grandfather whom they have never met. It is a very rare children's book that shows how children can survive on their own without adults. It teaches about how to be resourceful, responsibility, and how siblings should love and take care of each other.


Jonathan Swift's Gulliver
Jonathan Swift (Author)
Martin Jenkins (Editor)
Chris Riddell (Illustrator)
Gulliver's Travels is a classic of English Literature, it is required reading for many high school students in USA. The book is considered one of the best examples of satire ever written. Swift's sharp observations about the corruption of people and their institutions still ring true today, almost three hundred years after the book was first published.
Children may not completely understand the human satire, but they will be absolutely fascinated by the fantastic voyages of Gulliver.
The version that I bought is a very good adaption that is true to the original story, yet it is more easily understood by young children. Every page of the book contains excellent illustrations by Chris Riddell. My girl enjoyed reading the book. I actually asked her to stop after she completed the first 2 voyages, because I thought that the last 2 voyages may be too difficult for her to understand. However, she insisted on completing the whole book, and I am surprised at her level of understanding. Though my girl read and enjoyed this book at 6 years old, it is probably more suitable to children 12 years old and above.

Swift powerfully exploits his imaginative resources to ask unsettling questions about politics, science and human nature. It may not be suitable for kids, but it is literature of the very highest order. (Source:Gulliver's Travels)



Matilda
Roald Dahl (Author)
Matilda is about an extraordinarily gifted young girl who has idiot parents. When she goes to school, she encounters a beastly head mistress who terrorizes both students and teachers. Children can be inspired by Matilda's courage to stand up to bullies, and that extremely intelligent children like her should also be nice and compassionate towards others.

Weslandia
Paul Fleischman (Author)
Kevin Hawkes (Illustrator)
My girl likes this book very much, and she has read this book many times. She loves to examine the beautiful illustrations. It is about a boy, Wesley, who creates a whole new civilization in his backyard. The book not only explains what is a civilization, it also teaches children about individuality.


The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe
C.S. Lewis (Author)
Four siblings walk through a wardrobe and discover a fantasy world called Narnia. They experience compassion, bravery, generosity, greed and betrayal, sacrifice, martyrdom, suffering and redemption on their way to maturity before ascending to their rightful places in Narnian history.

The Story of Doctor Dolittle
Hugh Lofting(Author)
A brilliant story about a doctor who could understand the languages of animals.
Quote from the afterword in the book :
"The message that Hugh Lofting conveyed throughout his work was one of respect for life and the rights of all who share the common destiny of our world."



The mouse and the motorcycle
Beverly Cleary (Author)
A lonely boy befriends a talking mouse who falls in love with his toy motorcycle. Children learn about the meaning of friendship, forgiveness, and helping each other.



The Velveteen Rabbit
Margery Williams (Author)
The book tells the story of a toy rabbit who wishes to become real. It is a classic tale of love, friendship and learning to be yourself



Mrs Piggle Wiggle
Betty MacDonald (Author)
Amazon review:
"Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle has been wildly popular with children and adults for over 50 years. Children adore her because she understands them--and because her upside-down house is always filled with the smell of freshly baked cookies, and her backyard with buried treasure. Grownups love her because her magical common sense solutions to children's problems succeed when their own cajoling and yelling don't. For the child who refuses to bathe, Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle recommends letting her be. Wait until the dirt on her body has accumulated to half an inch, then scatter radish seeds on her arms and head. When the plants start sprouting, the nonbather is guaranteed to change her mind about that bath."


Dr. P. L. Travers (Author), Mary Shepard (Illustrator)
I enjoyed reading Mary Poppins as much as my girl. Mary Poppins is a nanny who makes ordinary events extraordinary. I learned how children should be treated, firmly and strictly, but still allowing them to enjoy their childhood. My girl learned that bad behaviour can get a child into trouble, and she really enjoyed reading the magical adventures of the children in the book.

C. S. Lewis (Author), Pauline Baynes (Illustrator)
This book, together with The Lion, the witch and the Wardrobe, are part of the Chronicles of Narnia.


As a very busy full time working mommy, it is really wonderful to listen to my girl read all these classics to me everyday. I have not read many of these books before, and I find myself learning so much along with my girl. Reading is not only about learning grammar, vocabulary and comprehension. More importantly, we learn about good morals and values, life experiences and a wide variety of knowledge.

Many experts advise parents to read to their kids. But I find that it is so much better to teach a child to read as early as possible, and then ask her to read out loud instead. My girl has a deep understanding of the story, and she is able to remember many details of the books that even I have forgotten.

76 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow! Tamarind,

U are on ur "sharing spree" again, thks for making the effort to post these reviews on ur girl's fav books.

By the way, can i check with u if there is a one stop bookstore where we can purchase those books that you have mentioned.

Thanks again!!

Cheers... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
I bought all the books from www.amazon.com, using vpost to ship to Singapore. Local bookshops do not carry all the books.

You can also find all these books in our National Library.

Anonymous said...

Dear Tamarind,

My gal is 3 years 8 mths and I am currently researching on the good methods to teach her to read and write in English and Chinese at home. Found your blog most useful as I share the same values as you when it comes to teaching the young ones. Will be faithfully following your blog! :)Just a quick question, do you devise a 'curriculum' to follow at home when teaching your kids the languages or its really adhoc?

Cally

Anonymous said...

Dear Tamarind,

Thanks for your quick reply. U r really so sweet...

I am also a fan of your blog. It's so interesting cum enriching to read your updates now and then.

Cheers... Melody

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind
I love your blog.. am thinking of teaching my gal phonics but i am not good at it also. any books or cd i can buy to learn phonics? esp blending. thanks

Tamarind said...

Quote:
"Just a quick question, do you devise a 'curriculum' to follow at home when teaching your kids the languages or its really adhoc?"

Dear Cally,
I am happy to know that you share the same values as me about teaching our kids.

For my curriculum, you can refer to the 3 stages in the page :
How to teach phonics

When I completed Stage 1, I started to let my boy read Book 1 of the Peter and Jane series so that he can learn sight words. Stage 2 and 3, and reading the Peter and Jane books go concurrently. Parents can also start on the Peter and Jane books after completing Stage 3. Kids will remember new words very fast when they have a good foundation of phonics.

Peter and Jane books are very easy to use. Most kids will read book 1a, 1b, 2a, 2b, 3a, 3b, etc. Just let the child read a few pages a day, or as much as he is willing to read. Some kids only need to read the a series. Read this page for more information :

Key Words with Ladybird

I usually spend less than 15 mins a day teaching my boy phonics and reading. It is important to observe the child and stop just before he starts to get tired of learning. My boy's attention span was very short. I had to use games, real objects and actions to teach him. Some kids may be able to focus for longer periods of time.

Tamarind said...

Quote:
"I love your blog.. am thinking of teaching my gal phonics but i am not good at it also. any books or cd i can buy to learn phonics? esp blending. thanks"

These Leapfrog DVDs are excellent for both adults and kids to learn phonic :

Letter Factory


Talking Words Factory


Code Word Caper
(new version available in April 2010)

They are not available in Singapore. You can order them from www.amazon.com. Amazon ships direct to Singapore.

You can also try the www.starfall.com website. My girl's primary school is using this website to teach phonics.

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
You are welcome. I am very happy to know that you find my blog enriching :)

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

It's me again... Juz a question of curosity. R u more for buying books for ur kids or borrowing from the library?

It seems that the books that u recommended in ur blog are all self purchased.

Does it make any difference to u if u buy or borrow from the library (hmm... maybe u think its worth the investment to buy good books since u have two kids?)?

Cheers... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
My hubby and I love books. We both think that books are great investments. In fact, my hubby has about 2500 books of a wide range of topics like novels, encyclopedias, computer science, engineering, physics, biology, history, etc. I have a few hundred Chinese books(adults fiction), and more than 400 children's books in both English and Chinese.

If my kids like a book, they will read it over and over again. If I borrow from the library, I will have to return the books. I am working full time and I am usually too busy to bring them to the library. I also want them to have access to books at any time of the day. So I prefer to buy books and build up our own library at home.

However, for mommies who have the time, I do encourage you to bring kids to the library as often as you can. Do your research before going to find out about good books and look for them while in the library. If you find that your kids love a book very much, then you can consider buying it. All the books that I recommended can be found in the library.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

I have also purchased some recommended books by u from dangdang website.

As i am purchasing for the first time, and have received an email from them. Can i confirm with u if they (dangdang) will send an email to u, asking for confirmation of the name for the credit card used and the first 4 digits and last 4 digits of your credit card.

Juz wanna to be safe before i reply since there is lots of credit card fraud going on these days. Thanks again...

Cheers... Melody

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Wow.. that's impressive yae! Such a huge collection of books. I love collecting books too but space constraint is always the problem.

Do u store your children's books in an open shelf concept? Hmm... collecting dust is another prob when we have open concept storage. =D

U mentioned abt ur hubby's collection in your previous comment. Concidentally, i am recently on the lookout for children's encyclopedias. Do u have any good recommendation on this?

Cheers... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
Yes dangdang will email the customer asking for the first and last 4 digits for the credit card for verification. I have ordered a 7 times from them with no problem. I do check my credit card transactions online regularly to be safe.

We have about 20 book shelves, each about 2 metres tall, squeezed into our flat of 110 square metres. We have to live with a lot of dust. Children's books are in the lower shelves for easy access.

Here are a few children's encylopedias that we have :
DK Animals - A Children's Encyclopedia

First Human Body Encyclopedia (Dk First Reference Series)

My Very First Encylopedia with Winnie the Pooh and Friends: Nature

The first 2 are bought from UK and US online, the 3rd book is from Popular bookshop.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Thanks for your fast reply again. I have just replied them. Hmm... however it does look strange since there's a double security level by Citibank. Think like u, i will have to check the transaction regularly then.

By the way, you have mentioned getting a DBS Amex card to try. Any success?

I am thinking of getting open concept bookshelves for children's books too. I guess we will have to make friends with "dust" too, hee..

It's so interesting to "chat" with you, thanks again.

Cheers.... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
My dangdang orders using DBS Amex card are successful. It is easier to use Amex card because they don't require you to enter any password. They will still send you an email asking for verification.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

How r u & ur family? This is Malar from India.

Really amazed to see ur updated website.

My son is now reading key words with peter and jane 6a book.

I am also making him to do more activity books (which has maze/finding differences/joining the dots/colouring/unscrambling the words/matching etc.,) which i bought from local shops here.

Can you suggest some books which he can read along with 6a book at this stage to develop his interest on reading more?

Thanks in advance and waiting for ur valuable reply.

With regards,
Malar

Tamarind said...

Dear Malar,
I am happy to hear from you. We are fine.

Your son is doing very well !

Here are some of the books that my kids like. Your son should be able to read all the books from 1 to 7 now. He should be able to read all the books from 8 to 12 when he completes Peter and Jane book 10.


1. Kipper by Mick Inkpen
Wiggly Pig by Mick Inkpen

2. By Dr Seuss :
Green Eggs and Ham
The cat in the hat

3. Curious George by Margret Rey

4. Mr Men series

5. Harry and the dinosaurs by Ian Whybrow

5. Mercy Watson by Kate DiCamillo

6. The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein

7. Winnie the Pooh by A. A. Milne

8. Lafcadio: The Lion Who Shot Back by Shel Silverstein

9. The Little Polar Bear series by Hans De Beer

10. Catwings By Ursula K Le Guin

11. The Storm by Cynthia Rylant

12. Three Tales of My Father's Dragon
By Ruth Stiles Gannett

Anonymous said...

Dear Tamarind,

I have tried to re-order books again from Dangdang website but to no avail.

I am always stuck at the payment part as the verification for Citibank have always failed. I have ended up ordering, cancelling and replacing my order again (abt 5-6 times in a day).

I have also tried to use DBS Amex card and failed also (prompting that it was an invalid card no.).

It's so frustrating leh. Any advice on the payment part?

Thank you again...

Cheers... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
When you ordered using DBS Amex card, there will be an error message, but it actually went through already.

You will receive an email asking you to verify your card number soon.

Have you tried DBS Amex more than once ? If you have, then you must cancel your unwanted orders and email dangdang service and ask them to refund you.

Their email is
service@cs.dangdang.com

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Oh... do u mean that everytime we use Amex card, there will be a message prompting unsuccessful? We have to ignore the msg and wait for their email?

In my case, msg was "invalid card no.", is it the same? I have cancelled the order though.


What abt Citibank card? Does it work the same? It prompted that the authentication is not the same.
Is there any limits of attempt when using Citibank card?

Million thanks...

Cheers... Melody

Anonymous said...

Oops Tamarind,

Forgot to check with you when u receive the error msg (when using Amex card). Do you also see the same screen as me - its the screen where u input your credit card no. behind, with an additional pop-up screen to inform you tat's "invalid card no.".

Otherwise, do you receive other msg or see other screen.

Sorry for being a nag, juz wanna to confirm as i tried to order using Amex card again.

Thanks a million again!!!

Cheers... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
For Citibank, if you see any error message, that means the payment was not made.

For Amex, if you see invalid card number, I think the amount is not deducted. Please check your credit card transactions. In my case, it did not say invalid card, it says payment not successful.

Please remember to check your credit card transactions.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

I have finally purchased from dangdang using Citibank card, *phew*. Dangdang couldn't accept my Amex card though, kept prompting invalid card no.

By the way, i saw another two interesting books, you may like to check it out :

大脚丫跳芭蕾——启发系列绘本
探索大自然的四季

Cheers...Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
Thanks for sharing those good books :)

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

No prob, my sharing is juz a teeny weeny bit compared to yours!

By the way, you emphasised the importance of getting the child to read a page aloud to you daily (any page is fine?). Do you mean we can get the child to continue reading the book by herself at her leisure time.

In addition, you have also recommended the Rainbow magic series. Can i check with you, on an average, how fast can your girl finished the bk (abt 80 pages).

My girl has been reading this bk but she can finished the book in abt 45 mins. Wow... i wonder if she can do speed reading, or she is just glancing thru the pages OR it is normal?

Thank you for your advise again.

Cheers... Melody

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Couldn't help but to share with you these two books from dangdang, tink its really nice stories for girls:

开往远方的列车--启发精选国际大师名作绘本
你爱谁多一些--启发精选世界优秀畅销绘本

Think i will get it when i have received those books that i have ordered earlier on.

Cheers.... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
Thanks again for those wonderful Chinese books :)

My kids now read about 5 pages to me every day, total about 1000 words, they read from a book of my choice. For example, my girl is now reading the Story of Doctor Dolittle, I ask her to read the entire book out loud to me, a few pages a day. She reads every word from every page. I feel that this important for a young child who is reading at a very advanced level. In this way parents can make sure that they really read and understand every word.

A 5 to 6 year old child may be able to read any word, but that does not mean that she can fully understand what she is reading. I find that my girl have very good understanding of all the books that she has read, I do not have to explain to her. But my younger boy needs more explanations and demonstrations.

My kids are also free to read any book of their choice from the home library of about 500 books. They can read silently on their own. My boy loves non-fiction books better.

My girl read one of the Rainbow Fairy books out loud to me before, she took less than one hour. When she reads silently, it is a lot faster.

You can ask your girl to tell you a summary of what happened in each chapter, or ask her some questions from the book and see if she can answer.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Hmm... do you mean you will designate a book juz for your children to read aloud, or it can be any bk that they have been reading silently by themselves.

Based on your advice, i have been trying to get my girl to read aloud but she is showing some resistance sometimes.

Cheers... Melody

Tamarind said...

Dear Melody,
Yes I choose books for each my kids to read out loud to me. Some of the books are listed in this page :

The importance of books

I don't just ask them to read. For my boy, I also act out the story :

Developing a love for reading

He enjoys acting out the story with me and he is very keen to find out what happens next in the book. He loves the books My Father's Dragon, and Wizard of Oz very much.

My girl enjoys the books because she is fascinated by the stories, there is no need to play "acting" with her. She often laughs as she reads.

I believe in reading books with good story lines, especially those written by the great authors, these books can really captivate a child's imagination. They can find whole new worlds and exciting adventures in these books.

Karuna said...

Hi Tamarind,

I am Karuna Kapil from india, its been long i came online.. My daughter (now 5 years and 3 months) is reading 8a, with very less help from me. But somehow i don see the fluency in her reading... Is there something that i can do to help her increase her fluency??

I try to give her books with less words but some information, like The Rookie Read About Series (All the colors of rainbow, Why moon changes its shape, Multiply this etc.....)Can u suggest some more such series....

Some more interactive books for kids to help them learn maths or EVS, Science, English Grammer....

Thanks for ur valuable blog...
Karuna

Tamarind said...

Dear Karuna,
I am happy to see your post. Your daughter is doing very well. The only way to increase fluency is by reading consistently. Try to setup a routine to read for at least 15 minutes everyday from a good book, in addition to the Peter and Jane books. You will see improvements about 6 months to one year.

I am not sure whether you can find the Fairy books by Daisy Meadows, very suitable for girls between 4 to 8 years old. Also try the Winnie the pooh, and The house at pooh corner by A.A. Milne. Make sure you get the original and unabridged versions. My kids also like the Curious George books, the Little Polar Bear books by Hans De Beer.

Karuna said...

Hey Tamarind!
Anonymous said the right thing, u are on "sharing spree"!!! And i feel really honoured to receive ur answer for these days not even school teachers (atleast the ones i know here) will make this much effort for their own class students.... U are my saviour in the true meaning. Thanks once again!!!

i would love to share ur blog on my facebook, is there some way for that....???? are u there on facebook??

Tamarind said...

Dear Karuna,
It's my pleasure :)

Please feel free to share this blog with anyone.

DAN'S MUMMY said...

Hi Timarind,

Another fan of your blog here..my boy is stepping into 2 years old..still struggling with ABC, 123 with him now...may I know when did you start the peter and jane series for your boy, please?

Thanks
Vivian

Tamarind said...

Hi Vivian,
I only let my kids read the Peter and Jane books when they have started to learn phonics. My girl read Peter and Jane when she was 4 years old, my boy was about 3 years 6 months old.

I advise parents to let your kids read Peter and Jane only when they know all the letter sounds very well, and also know how to join 3 letters to form words. Otherwise the child may find it very difficult to read the books. It is fine to let kids start to read these books at 4 to 5 years old. If they have a strong foundation in phonics, they will finish the books very quickly.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

got to read your comments today.We realised tat reading is very impt too.So now I am trying to borrow all kinds of books for my P1 ger to read cos she tend to choose those fairies n Rainbow Magic bks only.But whether she flips thru the bks with understanding or not is a question.

Do u have any recommendations on the Enrichment sch to go for so as to start her early for creative writing n improving her english power?

Thanks a million for yr feedback

Tamarind said...

Quote:
"But whether she flips thru the bks with understanding or not is a question."

Parents can continue to ask their kids to read out loud from the book, even for long chapter books. Kids can read one chapter out loud a day. This is the best way to ensure that they understand the book.

I do not have any recommendation for enrichment classes. Both my kids can write their original stories when they can read very fluently.

Lynda Low-Tan said...

Hi Tamarind,

I chanced upon this blog of yours after following your other blog on employing maid in Singapore.
I really like how easy it was to read both your blogs and would like to say a big "Thank you" to you.
I have a question, how do you store your many books? do you have a bookshelf for all of the books or do you keep all the books in toyogo box? I personnally do not find storing books in toyogo boxes a good idea. Hope you could share. thanks

Cheers,
Lynda

Tamarind said...

Dear Lynda,
Sorry for the late reply. I am now in China. The government blocks blogger.com, so I need to find out ways to access it.

I am happy to know that you enjoy reading my blogs.
I have about 20 Ikea bookshelves, each 80cm wide, 200cm tall, all over my 5 room HDB flat :) I have over 500 children's books in both English and Chinese, and my hubby has about 2000 books. It gets very dusty, but we are used to it.

Suzannah said...

Hi Tamarind,

I'm a phonics teacher....a budding phonics teacher anyway. :) Been reading some of your posts here and at kiasuparents. Just wanted to drop by and say, "Your method and approach is fantastic!" :) Though I'm not a mother and I do teach phonics to children, I firmly believe that the best approach anywhere is for mothers to teach their children. You're doing just that and I applaud your efforts! :)

Go on, inspire others to do the same!

(Oops, maybe i'm putting myself out of job, but tt's ok, it's still the BEST for the children!)

Tamarind said...

Dear Suzannah,
Thank you very much for your compliments :-)

Anonymous said...

hi Tamarind

My kids have completed the Peter and Jane series of books. I am wondering what's next for them to read? I can't seem to find any better/tougher graded readers beyond Peter and Jane

Thanks for your advice.

Tamarind said...

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"My kids have completed the Peter and Jane series of books. I am wondering what's next for them to read? I can't seem to find any better/tougher graded readers beyond Peter and Jane"

There is no need to read other graded readers. Your kids should be able to read any English books now, with probably a little help from you. You should let your kids read all the wonderful children's classics :

Picture books from my home library

The importance of reading books

I would advise you to continue to read with your kids. I still ask my kids to read one chapter out loud to me everyday, from interesting story books.

skinny said...

Dear Tamarind
I have a son who can't read fluently. he's ten by the way and when i found your blog, i regretted not helping him to read when he was small. i feel that it might be quite late to catch up now. Im really sad at not being a good mum. as he is not fluent in reading , it has affected his school results as well. pls give me advice on what to do as i have no idea on how to help him catch up with his peers fast n efficiently. You have done a really good job with your kids :). my son is way weaker at reading than ur 2 kids and i am already feeling hopeless. he borrows books from the library now and then but i feel like its not really helping him pick up speed . pls help!

skinny

Tamarind said...

Hi skinny,
Don't be sad. It is not too late. I had a lot of difficulty reading English novels like Charlotte's Web when I was 13 years old, even though I was in Raffles Girl's Secondary School. In Sec 4, I scored A in English literature.

I would advise you to start with the Ladybird Peter and Jane series, books 4 or 5, then continue to book 12. Read both the a and b series. Book 12 is suitable for kids 8+ years old. Then try to find all the books in this page :

Picture Books from my home library

Lafcadio The Lion Who Shot Back and My Father's Dragon are must read books and suitable for 10 years old.

At 10 years old, he should spend at least 1 hour reading everyday, start with 30 minutes first. Encourage him by sitting beside him, point to every sentence and ask him to read out loud to you. If he does not already know phonics, learn phonics at this website :

Starfall

If you can persist for at least 1 year, he should improve.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,
It's been quite some time since you last posted! I am one of your regulars & look upon you as role model!

By the way, I made the phonics cards & bought entire series of P&J, however I have a pretty hard time convincing & making my 2 yrs 9 mths girl 'play' with the cards & start reading the books. Do you advocate using baits in tricking children to learn or read? I'm thinking of using this method but not sure if this is appropriate. She has some foundation of phonics & the next thing she should learn is 3 letter words I suppose.

Thanks!
Dragonfly

Tamarind said...

Hi Dragonfly,
I was working in China for about 2 months, and was pretty busy after I returned.

It is up to parents whether they want to use rewards to encourage kids to read. Parents can also try to estable a routine. For example, if the kids want to watch their favourite DVD, then they must finish learning first. Or if the kids want to go out, they also must finish learning first. My kids know that they must finish reading before they go to bed every night. It has become routine to them, and they are very used to it.

I do give them a reward whenever they have finished reading a long book. I normally do not buy them anything except on their birthdays, so my kids know that they must work hard if they want to get what they want.

If parents often give kids whatever they want, then the rewards system will not work.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Thanks for sharing.
I'll try but there are just so many school of thoughts about rewarding. I myself was brought up without being rewarded for doing well in studies. Guess I am still in search of the right system! I do appreciate your advice though!

Look forward to your new posts soon!

Merry Xmas to you & family.

Cheers,
Dragonfly

teddybear88 said...

Hi Tamarind,

My gal is coming to 2 years old..
Im having difficulty trying to read to her.. she always seem to look at the pictures instead of words. I could only read to her for a few mins and she would flip the pages herself , get up and throw the book aside and off she goes to her own activity.
Im really very mad. May I know how would you handle for this situation? Thank you.


Flanna.

Tamarind said...

Hi Teddybear88,
It is absolutely normal for kids before the age of 3 to behave like your girl.
My kids were the same too. I actually did not have much patience reading to them before the age of 3. I gave them these interesting books to play with :
Wonderful books for kids from birth to 3 years old

I only started to teach them to read after 3 years old. I taught them phonics first :

How to teach phonics

Then I asked them to read out loud to me from the Peter and Jane and other story books.

The fact is that I rarely read to my kids, instead, I taught them to read to me instead, which is much more effective and relaxing for me :-)

karen said...

hi tamarind

I cannot agree more about your point on the need to read extensively & to be able to read independently before a child enters P1.
My girl is in P1 this year and i'm surprised at how much she needs to handle for English - reading short paragraphs, tackling open-ended compre questions, sentence construction for guided writing & 'big' words for spelling (egs wailed, threw a tantrum, squirted, vegetation, muskrat, scurry, enclosure ...). I'm not sure if this is because hers is a SAP school & hence, higher standard?? A child wouldn't be able to cope if she doesn't read widely.

Also, grammar is tricky. Despite my girl being able to read not-so-wordy chapter books, I still have to guide her on some aspects of grammar she encounters in her work, like tense and subject-verb-agreement. If a child has problems with sentence construction, how would she be able to handle the grammar rules (which are not so straightforward) at the same time??

Hence, like you stressed, it's so important for the child to read widely & be familiar with usage of the language before P1 ...

I'm getting my girl to read some of your recommended books.. and to incorporate 'reading aloud' as far as possible (I never thought of this until I read your blog). You know, I got her to read 'Three tales of my father's dragon' during the June hols - she liked the story so much, it was difficult for her to put down the book!

Do continue to share with us good books :))

karen said...

hi tamarind

my girl is in P1 this year and i'm surprised that so much is required for English. The kid has to handle open-ended compre questions, write sentences for picture 'compo' and handle rather big words for spelling (egs. mayonnaise, scurry, grunted, enclosure, vegetation, experience..).

If the child is not yet comfortable with reading independently and widely, like some of my girl's classmates, i can't imagine how difficult it is for the child. They also have to learn grammar at the same time - it's tough because grammar rules can be quite tricky. Even though my girl reads quite a lot, i still hv to guide her in grammar.

Only by reading widely can one be familiar with the language usage, & be well prepared for P1...

I really like readg about your recommended books. My girl read 'Three tales of my father's dragon' during the June hols. She liked it so much that it was difficult for her to put the book down! Will be getting her to read more of your recommended bks :)

teddybear88 said...

Hi Tamarind,

Thanks for your advice. I will look at the books which you recommend.

Cheers
Flanna

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,
Thanks for sharing both English and Chinese teaching methods. I am so glad that I found your blog by chance. May I know if you used special method/good books to teach maths? My girl is 3.5 years old and I find that her maths concept very weak.
Tks,
JJ

karen said...

dear tamarind

Juz dropping by to say that I've gotten some of ur recommended bks for my kids & they loved them.
My 7yo girl read 'Three Tales of my father's dragon'. Liked it so much that she didnt want to put the book down. My 2yo boy was thrilled with the Picture pops dinosaurs & machines. Now i'm thinking whether to get the 'ocean' one as well ;p

I fully agree with u that being able to read independently & extensively is key to being able to handle Pri 1 English well. I'm surprised that quite a lot is required for P1. Even though I feel my girl is reading ok (but of cos, no where near your boy's standard), I still have to guide her when it comes to grammar. English can be quite complex!

Well, I got to do more for my second kid :p

Keep up ur sharing, ya :))

Tamarind said...

Hi JJ,
The most important maths concept to teach at this age is counting forwards and backwards. The child must be able to count very well before she starts learning addition, subtraction, etc. So we must give children lots of time to practice counting.

When my kids were that age, they loved this video :

Richard Scarry's Best Counting Video Ever!

This video teaches kids to count up to 20. It is very old fashion and repetitive, but somehow my kids love it.

Of course, the best way to teach is still to count real objects.

My kids also like these 2 videos :
Leapfrog : Maths Circus
Leapfrog : Math adventure to the moon

I would not say that these are the best videos for teaching maths, but these are definitely educational.

You can also read my blog about how I taught my boy addition :
Learning Maths

Tamarind said...

Hi JJ,
There is a new Maths DVD by Leapfrog :

Numbers Ahoy

I have not used it before but there are many good customer reviews.

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Tks for your advise. Will check the DVD :)
JJ

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Thanks so much for sharing your method of teaching Phonics and the importance of reading. You are really so nice...

I love to buy books for my 3 years 3 months boy but he likes to tear books. How do you handle this or how you educate your kids to love books when they were at young age?

Cheers,
Nelly

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

Sorry, my boy is 2 years 3 months..


Nelly

Anonymous said...

Hi Tamarind,

I am thinking of order the DVD Leapfrog thru. amazon.com but notice that the shipping cost is quite high. I have not order any book or DVD from amazon so far. You have mentioned that you usually place your order via Vpost. May I know how the shipping cost like?

Tks,
JJ

Anonymous said...

Leapfrog is indeed great for Phonics. In fact it takes just a few viewings for my son to pick it up.

I find it more worthwhile to just rent them. I rent mine from www.kidswift.com since on the long run, at least for myself, it reduces cost and more importantly clutter at home!

Tamarind said...

Hi Karen,
I only see your comments now, because somehow your comments was marked as spam and I forgot to check it.

I am delighted that your daughter likes My Father's Dragon too. My kids also love Lafcadio the lion who shot back, highly recommended.

It is true that with the way English is taught now in primary schools using the Stellar program, the responsibility of teaching a child to read now falls on the parents.

Tamarind said...

Hi JJ,
Sorry for the late reply, I only see your comment now.

For vpost there is a base charge of $13.40 in addition to the weight charge. If you are buying only one DVD, it is not worth shipping by vpost. You can consider joining an online spree or buying from local websites. Just google for leapfrog dvd singapore.

karen said...

Dear Tamarind

Thks for your response. I'm so sorry that my comments appeared thrice then! I thought there was some technical error when I submitted my first comment (because it didn't appear) & wanted so much to share my comments, thus the resubmission :(

Do continue to update the recommended book list if you are free.. My gal also read Weslandia & Dr Dolittle - amazing books! I tried to get hold of the Pinocchio book from Amazon, but unfortunately, it's oos.

I'm now embarking on using your 'Phonics' method to teach my 2y3mths boy.. Wish me luck :)

thks so much,
karen

Tamarind said...

Dear Karen,
Good luck !

I will certainly recommend more good books when I have time.

Anonymous said...

Hi,

My gal is 4 yr 3 mths old nw n reading PJ 8a nw. At her speed, 5 to 10 pages a day, she will be completing PJ 12a very soon. Can I ask what should be the first chapter book that i should intro her? FYI, she is reading lots of other books independently nw, but not those chapter books that u had introduced in your blog. I am thinking which one should I buy first. Thanks in adv for your advice.

Tamarind said...

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"My gal is 4 yr 3 mths old nw n reading PJ 8a nw. At her speed, 5 to 10 pages a day, she will be completing PJ 12a very soon. Can I ask what should be the first chapter book that i should intro her? "

Your gal is impressive !

For 4 years old who is an advanced reader, I suggest the following chapter books :
1. Winnie-the-pooh
2. My Father's Dragon
3. The boxcar children
4. Lafcadio The Lion Who Shot Back
5. The story of doctor dolittle

These chapter books are straightforward and easy for a 4 year old child to understand. It is important that you continue to ask her to read out loud to you daily, and explain words and phrases that she does not understand.

Anonymous said...

Hi,

Thanks!
I will try to get those books soon.
What about Roald Dahl's books? Will a 4 yr old gal be ready for it? When did u start your child on Roald Dahl's books? I had bought the full 15 books set, can't wait to start reading with her..

Tamarind said...

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"What about Roald Dahl's books? Will a 4 yr old gal be ready for it? "

At around 4 to 5 years old, my boy read Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. Note that not all Roald Dahl's books are good. It is best to let the child read books by different authors.

The 5 books that I listed are of the same degree of difficulty as Roald Dahl's books.

Anonymous said...

Have been referring to your blog on and off…am now here to look through your recommendation for advanced readers and would like to know how you usually decide on which version for each title you order say through 'books depository' or Amazon? I see so many versions when I search each title that i am quite lost....Can I know how much time your child spend on reading aloud each day?
My girls are 4+ and although they have completed P&J a year plus ago, they are still mainly interested in books like Rainbow Magic and simple chapter books with some illustrations to hold their attention...Actually personally I find the Rainbow magic books not that bad, some can be quite informative and I make them read aloud about half the book each day...but they much prefer to read silently by themselves...we also have a set of Children's encyclopedia inherited from their daddy's collection which they read at their own leisure...although we don't actually test what they understand or not...

Tamarind said...

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"Have been referring to your blog on and off…am now here to look through your recommendation for advanced readers and would like to know how you usually decide on which version for each title you order say through 'books depository' or Amazon? I see so many versions when I search each title that i am quite lost....Can I know how much time your child spend on reading aloud each day? "


Hi,
I also find it hard to decide which version to choose. I usually look at the ISBN number and try to locate the book in the National Library. Though it is not always possible. So sometimes I do end up with books with very small print or low quality. If you don't mind spending more, hardcover books are generally better quality than paperback.

My kids also prefer to read silently. I let them read any books that they like on their own. My girl also used to love Rainbow Fairy books. However, I also make sure that they read all the great classics of children's literature, like Charlotte's Web, Wizard of Oz, the Jungle book, Alice in Wonderland, etc out loud to me. As they read out loud, I can explain parts of the story which I think are difficult for them to understand. When kids read silently, they may ignore difficult words or skip boring pages. As a result, some kids may have read many books, but still don't do well in school. My advise is that parents should ask the kids to read out loud for as long as possible, and always read books which are more advanced so that kids can improve.

Xijy31 said...

Hello Tamarind:
Thank you for your sharing so much excellent book with us. I read your post word by word. That's so helpful for my daughter who move here 4 month ago from Shanghai. She is now P1.Several days ago, I lent a book named "look out for the elephant" written by Enid Blyton. What do you think about this series?

Lili said...

Hi Tamarind,

I love your collections. Where do you buy those books? All from Amazon?

Thanks =)

Tamarind said...

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"Thank you for your sharing so much excellent book with us. I read your post word by word. That's so helpful for my daughter who move here 4 month ago from Shanghai. She is now P1.Several days ago, I lent a book named "look out for the elephant" written by Enid Blyton. What do you think about this series?"

Glad to know that you find my blog helpful :-)
I haven't read "look out for the elephant" before, but I think that all Enid Blyton books are suitable for kids. Do make sure that they read a wide variety of books written by different authors.

Tamarind said...

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"I love your collections. Where do you buy those books? All from Amazon?"

Hi Lili, I bought hard cover books from Amazon, paperback from www.bookdepository.co.uk.